If you want happiness, look inside yourself. The only way to get positive feelings about yourself is to think positive and to take positive action. Many people know how to condemn themselves when they make mistakes. No problem. But, have you ever thanked yourself when you have done well? For example, after an achievement, why not treat yourself real good. Congratulate yourself; otherwise no one will genuinely congratulate you. Why not buy a juice, visit a restaurant, buy a chocolate, do something to encourage yourself. Depending on your level in life and level of achievement, you may congratulate yourself by buying a new car or house, new watch or new phone, a chocolate or favorite drink! Why not? After all you are the only you! Stop shouting at yourself all the time, and begin to cheer yourself on!